“There’s nothing more attractive than someone with a passion for something, who looks at things positively and is always seeking to better themselves. “— Unknown
Be careful that you don’t let in people who are wearing a mask to make themselves seem more attractive on the inside.
On the other hand, have you ever noticed this?
While you’re getting a coffee in a restaurant, suddenly a new couple is looking for a table to sit down at. Then you perceive them as an unusual couple, thinking deep inside: what is she doing with that guy or vice-versa?
Hopefully, it isn't…
“It’s not the will to win that matters — everyone has that. It’s the will to prepare to win that matters.” — Paul Bear Bryant
Many people fall in their best moments when they are on the cusp of success. How is it possible?
When they keep making money, have a profitable business, a nice family, and invest everywhere, they start making bad choices and building their own road to failure.
I see everywhere in different forms. Originally I thought is a matter of education, but I was wrong. To clarify my point, these are some examples:
“Be afraid of the quiet ones. They are the ones who actually think.” — Unknown
Have you ever noticed how the most charismatic person in the room seems happy to listen sooner than speak?
I have friends who talk a lot; I have never been the most talkative guy in the room. When I moved here to NY from Lima, my city, I thought it was because I wasn't confident enough to communicate deeper because of the different languages.
Later on, I started to wonder: In my city, have I ever been the most talkative guy in the room? …
“If you’re not making someone else’s life better, you’re living yours wrong” — Unknown.
Last night I had a conversation with my wife. When you were single, she asked: what was your way to finding someone you believed would be the right person?
I was surprised by the question. The truth is, I never thought too much about it when I was dating someone. After that question, I started to think and recognize what I perceived on those dates.
Sometimes when you start dating someone, you do not think about anything. The purpose is to have a good time; that’s…
“Wisdom is your perspective on life, your sense of balance, your understanding of how the various parts and principles apply and relate to each other.”- Steven R. Covey.
The best advice in life come from people you don't even know.
Sound weird, but it is true. They don't come from friends or family members. They come from people that you saw once or twice in life. Maybe it is a coincidence, but they are the most valuable if applied in life.
I’ve been working in the restaurant business for years as a chef and waiter. I cannot complain about the…
“The past is where you learned the lesson. The future is where you apply the lesson, don’t give up in the middle.” — Unknown.
You make mistakes. Mistakes don't make you.
The past experiences mold the person you might be in the future. But don't get confused. According to studies, you shouldn’t be attached to those memories.
I can write many chapters about it. If I count all the silly things I did at a certain stage in life, I might end up with a whole series of books.
You know the beauty of that age. The naive belief that…
“Nothing happens until the pain of remaining the same outweighs the pain of change.” — Arthur Burt
It’s essential to set boundaries with new relationships, so you don't have to break bad habits later.
Certainly, it’s a duty to keep a healthy relationship, but we commit silly mistakes multiple times, creating wrong beliefs that we assume as true. Ignoring that they are helpless to establish a strong connection.
Many couples carry them everywhere. They seem inoffensive, but most of the time, they harm the relationship in several ways.
According to studies, those habits are rooted in learning theories from memories…
“Never waste any time you can spend sleeping.” — Frank H. Knight
Sometimes it’s best to sleep until you feel better.
I was unaware that a prerequisite of venting your issues to the therapist is sleeping regulations.
Two days ago, I talked with a friend who is dating another friend in common. He confessed is having a hard time in his life. I was surprised by his call when I picked up the phone. I thought am going to be another vain chat about everything and nothing at the same time.
He commented to me about his recent breakup and…
“In three words, I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life. It goes on.” — Robert Frost
Your mind will run you ragged with thousands of thoughts, practice directing or slowing the flow to your benefit.
Your brain is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, life starts to change. Many of us overlook checking our regular pictures daily. Neglecting how crucial they are to have a good performance.
Keep on track. Our thoughts might be extremely boring. But these practices are vital and directly linked to the path to success.
The problem is because of…
We all should stop reading inspirational quotes and get to work.
But let's recognize that some contain phrases so powerful that they become mantras for generations. If you’re a procrastinator, it’s undeniable that they help, according to studies. Or at least they keep reminding you what you’re lacking.
Many times we’re on autopilot with the endeavors and responsibilities that our daily life required. Time passes by, and sadly we realize that anything is the same anymore. The values changed, the goals and path to our dreams disappeared.
Ending up looking for someone to blame. And the eagerness to find the…